I find it funny when I hear some people dismiss professional athletes as people just in it for the money, just focused on the business. I have read and heard of instances where that is in fact the case, but it is pretty rare where a top draft choice takes the ‘signing bonus’ and just runs away with it, losing all motivation. Yes, if they were just in it for the money, once the bonus came in…….they would lose their ‘edge’, their competitive thrust.
In the Globe and Mail article this morning an article on the Blue Jays season, has a quote by Jose Reyes, the 31 year old shortstop who said
“You get to a point in your career when you just want to win”
Most professional athletes are wired differently. They are ultra-competitive. I remember Kevin Lowe saying that the signature element of a professional athlete isn’t his desire to win……so much as him hating to lose. I thought that was profound and disturbing at the same time. It comes from the Donald Trump school of business.
“Show me a good loser…….and I will show you a loser”
In the professional ranks athletes are not necessarily balanced individuals – not saying they are crazy at all – but they have a narrow all-consuming focus driven by the fact they have to stay competitive to remain world class in what they do.
They are driven more by ego – and ego comes from insecurity more than anything else. And it is this insecurity that drives them to achieve, to strive for championships, to be cheered & applauded………and ultimately ‘validated’ for what they are …a world class athlete. There is nothing more validating in the hockey world than getting your name put on the Stanley Cup. For the rest of time as we know it, your name will be carried on a Silver Trophy to all places in the world. While you are alive, you can bring it home and show it to your friends – you can even play a ‘street hockey game’ like you did as a kid and give it away, just like Martin Brodeur did with his buddies after he won it.
Bill Nyrop, a US hockey player from Minnesota, died an unfortunate early death due to cancer some 12 + years ago. He had played defence with the Montreal Canadiens and had won the Stanley Cup with them. Unfortunately he lost his Stanley Cup ring. Upon his death his wife contacted the Canadiens and told them it was the one thing he lamented more than anythiing else in his life. The Canadiens immediately created another Stanley Cup ring for him. It was placed upon his finger, and he was buried with it . It was his signpost immortality – of his significance to have been part of a group that achieved the highest of success in hockey.